My husband’s Instagram is better than yours
Join us on the couch as Lars & I explore the delicious flurry of gay shit, puppets, autism shit, drag, cool angry women, and a whole bunch of other funny, weird, queer delights that populate his spectacular Instagram feed
"Many imperfections can and may lead to perfection."
"Many imperfections can and may lead to perfection." - from I Am Radar, by Reif Larsen
Do you have to look 'different' to be different?
Someone asked me recently whether fully owning your difference inevitably makes it visible on the outside. In this video I share my answer along with some of my favourite, most ‘me’ outfits.
Sometimes I feel like a monster
What happens when the same week someone tells you that you've created a safe space where people feel truly seen, you also put your foot in it so spectacularly that your brain is still replaying the horror movie version three days later?
“Normal is a type of madness”
"Normal is a type of madness, isn't it? I think it's just that the only madness society allows is called normal." - from Life Ceremony, by Sayaka Murata
Interview: Find Your Freaks
In this episode of Find Your Freaks, Tonya Kubo sits down with Eli Trier - artist, writer, and self-described “dopamine dealer” - to explore what it means to live as an outsider and how that experience can become the foundation for something powerful.