My husband’s Instagram is better than yours

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Written By Elinor Trier

I deleted my Instagram account nearly two years ago, and I haven't missed it at all. But recently I was made aware of something Lars has been hiding from me - his Instagram feed is AWESOME.

Join us on the couch as we go through a delicious flurry of gay shit, puppets, autism shit, drag, cool angry women, and a whole bunch of other funny, weird, queer delights.

 

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