Pride, painting, and plot twists | The Misfit Diaries: Ch.9

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Written By Elinor Trier

August is Pride month in Copenhagen, and seeing my community both celebrated (and protested for) on such a grand scale did what it always does to me: brought up All The Feelings. Joy, connection, imposter syndrome, not-enoughness, community, acceptance - let's just say it's complicated! 🤣

This month also threw a major plot twist my way - in the form of some ridiculously exciting (and terrifying) news I'm still reeling from - and saw me painting up a storm after a restorative summer break.

So come and spend the month with me: a queer art show, a gloriously boundary-f*cking burlesque, a new British pub (sticky toffee PUDDING!), the ongoing saga of my poor broken body, and the pudding cats absolutely determined to join in with every painting I attempt.

 

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