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If you have both autism and ADHD (like me!) this is a wonderful resource to understand how they interact with each other - I found it enormously helpful.
If you have both autism and ADHD (like me!) this is a wonderful resource to understand how they interact with each other - I found it enormously helpful.
Join us on the couch as Lars & I explore the delicious flurry of gay shit, puppets, autism shit, drag, cool angry women, and a whole bunch of other funny, weird, queer delights that populate his spectacular Instagram feed
Someone asked me recently whether fully owning your difference inevitably makes it visible on the outside. In this video I share my answer along with some of my favourite, most ‘me’ outfits.
What happens when the same week someone tells you that you've created a safe space where people feel truly seen, you also put your foot in it so spectacularly that your brain is still replaying the horror movie version three days later?
"Clothes as a way of socializing that stands in for other forms of engagement. Clothes worn to substitute for speech. Clothes worn to fit in, to pass. Clothes worn in imitation of people I’d like to be like – IRL people, people in films, in books. Clothes as a search for the self other people appeared to have – though maybe it was just the way they “put themselves together.”" - Joanna Walsh
Ah, masking: that exhausting dance we do to 'pass' - as neurotypical, as straight, as 'normal' (whatever that means). It's draining, but unmasking can feel terrifying. And for those of us who didn't discover our true selves until later in life, it can be hard to know who we are without the mask.
A panel discussion with me and three other neurodivergent baddies talking about how we manage to get shit done, in spite of our wonky brains.